What topics do you like to discuss?
Human being interacts with each other through communication. When we meet, the first instinct is saying something to one another. In psychology we say that human beings are social beings and socialize by communicating to each other. When we are together with other people, we feel obliged to keep talking with them and prolonged moments of silence are usually uncomfortable to us.
But there are unwritten rules that dictates what kind of conversations an average person is likely to use to ensure that discomfort from silence when in company of each other is broken. Let me highlight a few common topics that almost everyone engages in when they meet.
Introduction
When we meet new people, our tendency and inclination is to know some basic informations about them like names, occupations, or where they’re from. Because we know what we expect from other people, we also give them information about ourselves as a way of triggering this kind of communications. This kind of conversation is almost universal to anyone, both schooled and unschooled.
Weather
I don’t know the reason but weather is among the first topic at our fingertips when we want to have a conversation with people, especially those we are not soo used to . We don’t talk about weather beacuse we care soo much about weather but probably because it is something both of us can observe and related quickly. Talking about the weather is a classic icebreaker and can lead to discussions about recent or upcoming events affected by weather.
Location or Venue
A average person will want to talk about their environment when they meet the other person as a way of connecting. I don’t know why they do that but research shows that is one of the most likely way people will strike a conversation.If they’re meeting at a specific location or event, they might comment on the surroundings, the venue, or any interesting aspects of the location.
Hobbies and Interests
Knowing about the other person’s hobby helps us find out what they like and can direct our next conversations with them. If we happens to share hobbies, we will become closer to each other quickly than otherwise.Sharing hobbies and interests is a great way to find common ground and spark conversation. People might talk about sports, books, movies, music, or any other activities they enjoy.
Work or School
Probably because school life reminds us how we used to easily connect with each other with fear, tension or anxiety. School connection was the most natural way of connecting effortlessly and maybe we use the same history to connect with each other.Discussing work or school can provide insight into each other’s lives and backgrounds. They might talk about their jobs, studies, or recent projects.
Travel
Sharing travel experiences or future travel plans is another common topic. People often enjoy talking about places they’ve visited or places they’d like to go.
Current Events
Most of people are interested with current events and probably we get something that unites us easily in the current events like politics.
Discussing recent news or events can provide interesting conversation topics, but it’s important to be mindful of potentially sensitive or controversial subjects.
Food and Drink
Most of us love food and in food we easily connect with each other.Talking about food and drink is another popular topic, especially if they’re meeting over a meal or a drink. They might discuss favorite foods, restaurants, or recipes.
what would you like to discuss with me?
Personally I love discussing about nature and creation.The whole creation is full of mysteries. From the earth geographic structure to the galaxies, both visible phenomenal things like mountains to those tiny invisible particles that make matter, it is just amazing. The way mathematics has been used by the creator to define and lay foundation of these things, it is just beautiful and it amazes me. If you have something to say about nature and universe, i become interested immediately because it is fascinating to me.
But the moment you start discussing about another person, I switch off
because am weak on those areas. I love solving problems and if you present a
problem, we will discuss it until we get a solution, but if you bring something
about our boss or anyone else, I will comment in a neutral way and go to other
businesses. I won’t waste time discussing people because such discussions does
not help them become better, at best, it can only alter our view on them. I
would rather form an opinion based on observations rather than hearing because
I will not be biased.
I like discussion what can be measured, observed and controlled to have
alternative results….by now you should know am a scientist and not some sort
of religious priest.
I though you should know:; 😜
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