Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in which two individuals engage in an activity together, most often with the intention of evaluating each other’s suitability as a partner in a future intimate relationship.
It falls into the category of courtship, consisting of social events carried out by the couple either alone or with others.
The reason dating is a challenge is because am an indoor person. I prefer spending time alone, writing or coding. I can easily forget about our dating and this will really upset my partner. Sometimes am soo tired to talk and all i want is just sleep or scroll my phone endlessly without evening seeing what is on the screen, thinking nothing. This is a state i refer as hanging. It happens when i have been teaching the whole day long or have been writing for some hours and so am mentally tired. My partner may wonder why am not calling.
During dating period, the partners presents the best of themselves to their partner, am not likely to do that because am always real, 24 hours 7 days a week. I will not be different three years later from what you saw in the first day, and so my inability to impress is likely to make me loose good people that are looking for perfection, causing me emotional pain in the process.
The idea of always going for a date is not pleasant to me because am addicted to indoor activities, hope my partner will enjoy it, otherwise i expect conflict of interests.
Otherwise i don’t expect any other difficulties in future, because i can manage every situation and everything, except another human being. I can work on computers, repair hardwares and correct softwares, but when it comes to dealing with another human beings, i find it difficult because human beings are complicated creatures. You will upset them when you intends the bests and leave without giving proper explanations. If i have to avoid difficulties, then i have to stay alone for the next six months, and everything about me will be just fine.
please tell me about what you finds difficult in the comments.