Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?
One day, a house girl next door wrote to me a short note. ” hey handsome, when I see you, my whole body shiver, when you see me staring at you, just know that my eyes and heart are filled with desires to have you, that I can make you mine forever “….I have never forgotten those words. I will never forget them.
Immediately after college, I college mate and a close friend of mine after few months of separation, called me during my birthday out of nowhere and suddenly sang happy birthday to me for me with the whole class she was teaching.
During COVID-19, I visited my girlfriend and she took 3 hours baking cake, 🎂🎈🎉, just for me.
And I sang her the song ” you r like a lovely land to me, you have doves eyes my love”….and the whole week, she kept asking me to sing the song for her .
Another time I felt special is when my girlfriend kept calling me at night just to tell me she wanted to hear me talk, and we talked from early evening to morning. I never slept. I was sleepy at work and when my colleagues showed concern, I just smiled it off.
when I visited my sister last year, she cooked chapatis for me to eat and to carry some for myself because I was living alone.
Another moments when I have felt special is when I was sick and mum carried me at her back to take me to hospital. I was 14 by them.
When I visit home, the kind of effort mum shows to make a special meal for me. Just for me