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  • Mango Juice

    Mango Juice

    A mango is an edible stone fruit produced by a tropical tree known as Mangifera indica whose origin can be traced to northwestern Myanmar, Bangladesh, and northeastern India. It’s cold juice is refreshing, giving a feeling of relaxation and tranquility, A very pleasant sip during a hot day especially if you live in hot Asian region or tropical Africa.

    India is the leading mango producer in the world with an estimated 24.7 million tons of mango production per year followed by Indonesia at 3.6 million tons per year and china at 2.4 million tons per year. Other major producers of mangoes includes Pakistan, Brazil, Mexico and Nigeria. Many other countries produces mangoes and mango tree is a common tree in many places. Therefore, it is not difficult to find mangoes. Mango Juice is therefore cheap to obtain but with numerous health benefits. It is a juice you can easily make because it does not need sophisticated tools or expensive ingredients.

    Health benefits of mangoes includes:

    • Has compounds that shields cells from the DNA damage that can leaf to degenerative diseases like type 2 diabetes and cancer.
    • supports heart health in terms of managing the levels of lipids you have in your blood
    • is a great source of carotenoids which is very important in boosting immune system functionality
    • contains high level of vitamin C which produces collagen tissue that gives our skin elasticity it needs preventing wrinkles and sagging.
    • It ease constipation
    • Have an antioxidant called beta-carotene that helps promote eye health

    Making of mango Juice

    INGREDIENTS

    • Mangoes
    • Milk
    • Sugar
    • 3 ice cubes (optional)

    Tools

    • Blender
    • Peeler
    • Tablespoons

    Procedure

    • Wash an rinse your mangoes
    • pat with a kitchen towel to dry for easy peeling.
    • peel and dispose of the stones
    • chopp into chunks and into the blender.
    • add 3 tablespoons of sugar at this point to add sweetness or 2 tablespoons of honey or palm sugar or coconut sugar.
    • add 2 ice cubes (optional) which help to thicken the milkshake.
    • blend till smooth. There should be no chunks of mangoes in the shake. if the shake is too thick you can opt to add more milk to be slightly thinner.
    • pour in glasses and serve with a topping of diced mango chunks or sprinkles or whipped cream

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  • Thought i needed Java to program

    Thought i needed Java to program

    Java is a type of coffee that contains caffeine, a stimulant substance that is proven to increase the release of fats from the fat tissues and helps boost the resting metabolic activity.

    When we were learning programming, we were told that people that developed Java programming language were drinking a lot of coffee as they develop the codes for the language, hence they called it Java. I came to associate computer programming with coffee. So i went to shop and bought 2kg of coffee. After the busy day of work, i will take a cup of coffee and i could feel refreshed and able to stay awake for some 4 hours learning Java.

    I wanted to be an expert in computer programming and as i was young and naïve, i imagined that expert programmers have to drink coffee in order to succeed.

    One day while in university i developed signs of blood pressure and the doctor recommended that i should reduce my coffee intake. I would have a 2 litre thermo flask with boiled water, have a jar of coffee by me and a jar of sugar. All i could was to make cup after another for coffee and make sip after sip as i went through voluminous books on computer science.

    I used to enjoy it very much. By the end of 4-5 hours of study, i could not sleep because i was intoxicated. My blood was rushing and my brain could not settle, it was becoming dangerous, working hard during the day and having sleepless night because of litres of coffee in my body. Most often i would forget to cook or eat, because i was eager to read my next page about Java or C programming, until i became serious sick because of strain.

    Nowadays, i don’t take many cups of coffee but a cup of coffee every two hours is in my schedule daily. Java coffee is an important substance in my house. Nowadays s i prefer milky coffee especially in the mornings. Another favorite coffee apart from Java is cappuccino which was very common among team members i briefly worked with on a JavaScript program. They introduced it to me and since then, it is part of my favorite drink.

    Before i was introduced to coffee, i used to like tea very much, but the amount of tea i have taken is much much less than coffee that i enjoy very much.

    Hope you enjoy a cup of coffee as you read this post:;

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  • Hangouts

    Hangouts

    The wise usually says that you are an average of about 5 people that are close to you. Another one said “Show me your friends, i will tell you who are are”. We are influenced by people around us. They affects our thought patterns and how we se things. We adopt the communication styles of people we spend time with and if they are not good people, they will influence us negatively.

    People of the ancient times said. “Do not be deceived, evil companies ruins good morals”. If you starting hanging out with a group of people, no matter how assertive and confident you are, soon or later you will adopt few of their behaviors. In Psychology we can talk about group thinking where people that spends time within the same environment tends to think in a certain way that is common to everyone within that locality.

    With this knowledge, I value good companies. I like people with positive energy, those that talks possibilities. I get mad when am around people that talks negatives because they can cause you thoughts of helplessness and despair. People that talks negatives can really discourages someone from a worthy course, because what we hear will affect us, soon or later.

    I like happy people. Joyful people are very attractive to me. I feel very comfortable and secure among people that discusses ideas and the universe as compared to people that discusses people. I get quickly tired and bored with people that talks about others. If our boss is bad, better we talk about how to forge ahead beyond our employments than discuss our boss.

    People that have some things that they are actively pursuing are very attractive to me. I loathe idle people because they can be very destructive. Apart from gossips, they are prone to being jealous and malicious. If you can, avoid idle and lazy people.

    Another group of people i value and appreciate being around are calm , just and kind people. I like people that talks few words per unit time. I enjoy company of people that can pause a conversation with a long silence. I like people that i can be around, just feeling them and seeing them, but don’t have pressure of feeling our space with words. I love people that understands that, we don’t have to keep saying things just to feel connected. People that can be comfortable with silence and still with can bond in that silence are priceless. I hate noise and people that will talk nonstop for a long time, really makes me very uncomfortable. If i can have people we can stare at each other, smile and enjoy peace around without words, i feel very good.

    I like people who trust that am thinking about them without constant needing affirmation.

    People that believes that small things of life like exchanging petty gifts and flowers are very enjoyable to live with as opposed to people that are always chasing after the bag. People that value a worthy cause over a lot of money are also very attractive to me.

    People that are not easily offended are comfortable to be with because they let me to be myself, i value them because i can stay with all kind of people without being offended, unless they talk too much:;

    However, i like funny people that can throw jokes here and there, people that reminds me that life doe not need to be soo serious. I prefer people who can bend rules a little just to allow some humanity, creativity and fun. I value people that prefers creativity and flexibility over people that likes following stick rules and rigid to the set rules. I like it when my team can decides what will work that what it is. If you happen to be in this category, kindly send me a comment on how to reach you.

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  • Shoes I will never forget

    Shoes I will never forget

    A shoe is part of clothing that protects our feet. Shoes are important part of life, it can be very difficult to walk without shoes in the streets because you risk your feet from being bricked by objects or becoming infected by disease causing germs in the streets.

    In our community, they says that shoes can be used to determine what kind of man you are, which is partly true because most often we buy shoes or choose one based on our economic status. Shoes comes with different shapes, quality and type of materials. They can be leather shoes, canvas or rubber shoes etc. In addition, shoes can be used as part of fashion and style especially among women where they ladies wear shoes to match a certain occasion or function.

    Lack of shoes has been associated as a mark of extreme poverty and so shoes is considered an essential part of life.

    Personally i have pair of shoes i will never forget. It was a pair of shoes bought for me by my father when i was still in high school. It was a black boot . The special thing about that pair of shoes is that it never wearied out when i wore it daily for three years i had it in high school. It was a tough one that helped me to run through rough terrain on my way to school. It made me feel powerful, like i was driving a four wheel drive. I was not careful on thorny bushes of the grassland savannah that characterized environment where i grew up.

    The shoes outlived it’s expected life. It was the shoes i used to look for jobs on various cities of my country before i could join university. The pair of shoes was among the most favorite one among the three pair of shoes i had while in the university. Before i finished my three years of university education, the other two pairs worn out completely and my boot endured past university graduation day. It was the only shoe i had when i was looking for jobs and moved from one county to another to take applications for jobs. I moved a total of 12 counties, and that pair of shoes was an important too in my tarmacking. I only retired it after getting a job and was able to buy another pair of shoes.

    I donated it to a poor man near my residential are 3 days after meeting a high school friend who noted that i still had that old shoes from high school and sarcastically asked me. “It is a family inheritance you are supposed to pass from generation to another?”. We laughed loudly, but i did not want it to be generational pair of shoes. It’s sole was warn out a little bit and it’s skin was cracked , but i knew that it will create a great comfort to that old man in the street. I also knew that, i don’t want my old friends see me with that pair of shoes again. But forever, it will be remembered in my memory.

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  • Dear life

    Dear life

    key Note:

    As long as you are breathing, you have chances of obtaining whatever you have desired in life. Even the slightest of chances do happen sometimes:;

    I think the greatest gift of all time i have received is the gift of life. whatever imaginable gift i can ever be gifted cannot supersede the gift of life, because without life, all other things are useless to me. Whatever that can be desired by man is very useless to him if he is not living to see it.

    If you can live peacefully and in health and be able to obtain happiness and love in your days on earth, you are blessed beyond measure.

    All other things we struggle soo much to have becomes useless to us, our achievements, the wealthy we have accumulated, the fame etc., do not apply when breath of life is taken from us.

    As long us you are living, you have possibilities to achieve your dreams, no matter how small are the chances. If you are sick and breathing, you can get healed, no matter how slight are the chances. The game of chances can happen to all. There are poor people that won charity. So even poor and homeless have chances of becoming rich as long as they are breathing. Prisoners has chances of gaining freedom and even becoming rulers as long as they are breathing.

    One wise person wrote this sayings:

    Therefore i believe that the best gift one can give you is adding days to your years. So give me joy and peace because it lengthen my days.

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  • Budget is not always the right thing

    Budget is not always the right thing

    Daily writing prompt
    Write about your approach to budgeting.

    budgeting is the process of determining how you will spend money against the income you got or you will get within a specific period of time.

    Most often, money in our hands is volatile and it attracts soo many things. So many things of the world needs attention of our money and for most of people, their wants are insatiable. Most of the things we see in displays are things we would like to have, or rather are packaged and presented in such a way that they seduce us to wanting them. We have that inbuilt instincts in us to want to acquire things, and so when we have money, the excitements of spending it on buying things we want is real. Most of people gets joy on spending money for things that they want, shopping and buying of things is enjoyable and most of people are restricted in buying things by the fact that, monetary resources around them are limited.

    Other sources of expenditure are involuntary but quite unavoidable. For instances, once in a while our friends and family members wants us to come through for them by giving them part of our income so as to cater for their emergence needs or those needs that are beyond their abilities.

    If you are not careful, it is very much possible to find yourself spending all your income within a short time, and then find that you have no money to drive your life. We need money for our daily upkeeps. We need money to pay for transport or buy gas to travel to work and buy foods. We need money to cater for future expenses like school fees and shelter for our family. Money is the medium of exchange, which we use to get things we need for our survival. But not always do we spend money on what we need, sometimes we spend on things that makes us feel good and sometimes our emotions do not reason or agrees with reality. Our feelings of wanting to spend time in that expensive hotel and enjoy great moments or the feeling of wanting that shiny silvery expensive apple phone does not always reason that our sources of income are exhaustible and will finish up within a short period of time. The psychological feelings of excitement when buying things is mostly detached from the fact that our incomes are limited.

    Due to the realities of life, and with realization that we cannot always get whatever we want because we will need to use our monetary resources with care, we need to develop a tool that can act as a guide, telling us what we need to buy and what we should forego at any particular moment. This is the work of budget.

    In making a budget, we determine what is the total sum of our income within a given period. If we are salaried people, we know what is our salary. We separate our needs from wants. We write down the necessities that we need to survive hence helping our mind disengage with things that cannot help us to survive. Budgeting helps us avoid things that are attractive but not needed in our lives.

    After determining the things i need, i determine the quantity is should have so as to last me before the next income. I get the price of each item i need, maybe by checking their costs from websites of the stores i buy from, or based on my previous expenditures on them. In the budget, i will start with the recurrent fixed expenditures like house rent, water bills, electric power bills, monthly subscriptions like internet connectivity and newspaper subscription. Then i set apart money needed for transport to work and then for other things like food items and then emergencies. Emergencies includes the money given to friends and relatives when they call for help. If they call and their is some money in an emergency kitty, they are lucky. If they call when emergency fund is exhausted, then they have to look for help elsewhere. That is how is used to do when i started working. I was was working on a tight budget and any mistake on financial matters could lead me to financial distress because i was earning too little in my teaching job.

    However, nowadays i don’t do budgeting. I just pay my bills when they are due and buy things i need. I came to realize that, saving and living in a restricted financial life through tight budgets does not help financial growth. Strict financial budget and avoidance of spending can cause you have a limited life if not well managed. It creates stinginess and fear of spending on you mind, lest you go against your budget. This may cause you to forego a great investment opportunities because you fear spending money. Great opportunities to bring financial break through can come your way, but because you are too careful with your money, you stick with your savings instead of investing. Wealth comes through multiplying money by investing in the right places, budgeting helps you save on emergency but may make you stick to one source of income forever, creating scarcity in our mindset and hindering financial growth and freedom. There are people who spends more but keep on getting more yet some people are very stingy but will never have enough.

    Don’t get me wrong, you cannot manage business enterprises without budgets and strict financial accounting, here am talking about budgeting your personal financial incomes from salaries and wages.

    When you stick to budget, you may become unreliable to your friends because you may ignore their needs when they express them and failing to invest your resources on people that matters in your life limits your ability to create social capital, which may be more important that money itself. When you are too stingy with your money, you may loose connections that may create for you open doors for financial break through in future. I have ever bought something at random in the market and later sold it at some handsome amount later to somebody i met. Somethings you buy are assets and when you are too strict with money, you may not acquire assets because you only budget to consume.

    On my own view, ability to discern the right things to spend money on is better than strict budgeting for those people that hates working on employment and living on salaries. The reason am saying this is because i once forego an opportunity to buy a property that was selling cheap some 10 years ago because of tight budgeting i was taught in school. I could be having a properties worth hundreds of thousands of dollars if i had made the right move. I usually regret my stinginess at that time.

    We usually have personal budget because we are not able to determine the best way to use money. We are helpless before money. We lack discipline or knowledge on where to put our money, mostly due to lack of information or discernment. When we have money, most of us are prone to cone men that sells us fake opportunities. I can say that an average human being is stupid infront of money because money has a way of influencing our thoughts and emotions. Some people says money makes some people becomes stupid, and when it is gone, they become wise again. We usually have good plans for money until we get it and after we get money, we don’t remember our plans, it is a curse of man with money.

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  • The curse of Unpatriotic leaders

    The curse of Unpatriotic leaders

    Patriotism is the feeling of love, devotion, and a sense of attachment to a country or state. It is associating yourself closely with the pride of a nation that defines your nation. A patriotic person respects and supports the values and beliefs of his/her nation. You accepts and practice the culture of your country, you uphold it’s philosophy and your actions supports it’s well being. A Patriotic person will pay their taxes without need for coercion and strict follow up from their government.

    Patriotism can be closely related to being loyal in that a patriotic person will avoid actions that compromise the well being of their nation like corruption, taking bribes and corroborating with terrorists. There was a case in a certain country where a terrorist group could send spies and they would carry with a huge amount of money, mostly dollars, which they would bribe security personnel on the border so as to enter the land without restriction. Consequently, their nation was massacred by terrorist, i wonder if they ever made use of their new acquired wealth when they had caused such a damage to their nations.

    Patriotic people will want to fight for the well being of their nation. When Ukrainians were attacked by Russia, they showed patriotism when civilians took to themselves to act as army men for the sake of their country. Patriotic people will stand to safeguard dignity and sovereignty of their country in front of adversity.

    Self-Interests

    Unpatriotic people do not look at the greater good of a nation, but will seek personal gratifications at the expense of the greater good of a nation. We have seen that especially in dark countries which are ruled with dictatorship where leaders practices heavy corruption, take resources of their nation including government money to other countries and hide them there so that incase their country collapses, they will free to those countries for safety. Such people crumbled education and health systems of their country by stealing from their doctors and teachers so much so that there cannot be found quality hospital or sound practice of medicine. Doctors in such countries are made to work under difficult conditions, they work for long hours, underpaid and denied opportunities to further their studies. This is because unpatriotic leaders took the money needed to facilitates health developments to their personal use.

    Ridiculous

    The most ridiculous thing is that, when such leaders are sick, they are flown to other countries whose leaders has taken care of their health sector and have developed competent health systems with highly trained doctors. Thanks to their great stolen wealthy, they will seek the best health facilities with the best doctors in the world because they feel they are more important than the citizens they govern whom they have left to lot in poverty and impoverishment. Such kind of people has always carried a sense of self importance, they are characterized by arrogance, heavy spending and huge appetite for expensive things of the world. What they buy with their stolen money can help build amenities and do great things for their country but they like showing off, mostly to impress many women that surrounds them.

    Immoral

    Mostly; greedy leaders have huge sexual appetite and will always pursue every woman that passes their way, their offices is kind of a brothel of some sort. Woe unto woman that may need help from their offices, they will exploit their vulnerabilities and even threaten them just to have sex with them. If you have a beautiful girlfriend, ensure she does not come close to their eyes:;

    The issue with unpatriotic leaders is that they have scarcity mindset which is a psychological problem. Though they are rich, they are very poor mentally and in their soul. They have emptiness in their soul which they tries to fill by grabbing whatever comes their way. They grab land, properties, money, women etc. but never seem to have enough because nothing under heaven or below the earth that can satisfy a greedy soul. Just like death, they will swallow the inhabitants of the earth but they never feel as having enough. Consequently, their citizens are oppressed and lacks basic needs like food, shelter, education, health care and jobs. Citizens of such a nations cannot be expected to be loyal, why should anyone be loyal to government that does not mind their well-being?

    leading backwardness

    Unpatriotic leaders will have their country characterized by little innovation, few scientific discovery and no new development of knowledge. This is because education of gifted children is curtailed by the heavily corrupted education system, They have poorly trained teachers that are usually demotivated. They don’t fund scientific investigations and education process is simply a process of acquiring graded papers without the holder of the paper having skills and competence to handle problems of the world. Their education system is a commercial one where education is sold to the highest binder. Good schools cannot be afforded by poor people and parents watch in despair as their bright and gifted students waste time at home doing manual jobs because they cannot afford the school fees charged.

    This countries end up wasting a vast of wealth of talents and abilities because of corruption causing gifted people dies with vast of their potential which were never exploited for the betterment of their country and human kind.

    Probably, all diseases could be having cure, were it not for poor children that were denied education by poor leaders that were too greedy and corrupt so as to see beyond their big stomach. Unpatriotic leaders often sends their children to overseas countries because they have no faith with education systems of the country they govern.

    Unpatriotic leaders will try to destroy any leader or person that seems to outwit them in wisdom, so that in their kingdom, stupidity and folly prevails.

    Gifts for countries

    The greatest gift any country could have is patriotic, good and selfless leaders. One person once said this when he noted the prosperity of their nation due to it’s good leadership:

    And somebody else said:

    The place is as good as people living there or people that once lived there. America is great because of it’s pioneers like Abraham Lincoln. Great nations are great because of their fore parents that focused on building a nation beyond their immediate needs and gratifications. We will be ancestors one day, and our thoughts and actions today will determine the judgements of the offspring that will come from us. Let us be patriotic.

    When a nation has good leadership, the happiness index of that country goes up because there will be fairness, justice and future for all. May gods give us good leaders.

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  • 传播理论

    介绍

    作为一个人,就必须要沟通,因为人是社会动物,需要不断的沟通,通过沟通来相互影响。 沟通可以帮助您与其他人建立有效的联系。 人类依靠沟通技巧来帮助他们满足需求、找到幸福并实现个人成就。 从我们出生到死亡,我们都会参与多种类型的交流。 人类沟通的一个挑战是尽可能有效地沟通并培养沟通技巧,以便沟通对您有利,而不是对您不利。 您对传播理论的了解将帮助您更好地理解不同的沟通方式,首先是作为一个人,其次是作为一个学者。

    定义沟通

    不同的人对沟通有不同的定义。 Gamble 和 Gamble (1993) 将沟通定义为一种期望的或偶然的意义转移。

    《牛津词典》将沟通定义为表达想法和感受的活动或过程,或向人们提供信息的过程。

    威尔伯·施拉姆(Wilber Schramm)将沟通定义为一种机制,通过这种机制,人际关系通过在共同性的基础上分享经验而存在和发展。

    根据牛津词典,通信的另一个含义是发送信息的方法,特别是电话、无线电、计算机或其他媒体或通过公路、铁路和航空。

    沟通不仅仅是想法或思想的传递。 它并不像某些定义所暗示的那样是静态行为,而是朝着预期目标采取行动和互动的动态过程。 最近的定义将沟通视为两个或更多人之间通过某些标志、符号和行为分享或交换想法、信息、知识、态度或感觉的过程。

    沟通要素

    在沟通的每一个行为或遭遇中,都有一些共同的元素共同帮助定义沟通过程。 如果您了解这些要素,它们将帮助您发展自己的沟通能力。

    沟通涉及以下要素:

    来源

    这是指消息的传播者或发起者。 此人也称为发送者。 发送者有时会成为消息的接收者。 源是通信过程启动的地方。

    语境

    这是指在某些背景或环境中进行交流的地点和时间。 背景或环境会影响您对待他人的方式或决定您与他们分享的交流经历的性质。 例如,你可以根据环境改变你的姿势、说话方式或着装。 环境会降低你的信心、模糊你的思维或增加紧张和困惑。 另一方面,如果环境友好,则可以鼓励您进行有效的沟通。

    信息

    消息是正在传达的内容。

    在每次交流中,我们都会发送和接收言语和非言语
    消息。 消息是通信行为的内容。

    渠道

    通道是消息从发送者移动到接收者所经过的地方。 它指的是声音和无线电等传输媒介。 消息可以通过口头和非口头渠道发送和接收。 实际上,我们是多渠道沟通者。 为了有效沟通,请在任何给定时间使用多个渠道。

    接收者

    这是发送者通过通信通道中继的消息的目标,也是应该接收和理解消息的人。 接收者可能会理解或误解消息的全部或部分内容。 这可能会扭曲整个沟通过程,甚至导致误解和可能的冲突。 人们之间的许多冲突都是由于对信息的误解而引起的。 通信中的接收者有时会成为源或发送者。

    反馈

    这是消息发送者从目标接收到的响应,作为所发送消息的反应。 当我们与一个或多个人交流时,我们也会收到回报信息。 我们在对沟通做出反应时感知到的言语或非言语线索就是反馈。 反馈告诉我们进展如何。 反馈可以是正面的,也可以是负面的。

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  • las emociones

    las emociones

    En resumen


    Si resulta que eres mi chica, me cuentas algo y no recibes respuesta alguna, no creas que no te he escuchado ni entendido. El procesamiento de información dentro de mí es totalmente invisible. Sucede en una caja negra, no os dejéis engañar por mi cara. sonreír no significa emoción, fruncir el ceño no significa desaprobación. El corazón, el rostro y la mente no siempre funcionan al unísono. Suelen trabajar con cadenas de mando.

    Las buenas noticias nos dan salud.


    Las buenas noticias son saludables para nuestros huesos, pero las malas noticias son la podredumbre de los huesos. Las buenas noticias dan salud a nuestras almas. Por supuesto, nunca fuimos hechos para recibir malas noticias, nunca fuimos conectados de esa manera, es por eso que las malas noticias nos hacen sentir muy mal, causan estrés emocional y crean ansiedad en nosotros. Las malas noticias perturban nuestra paz interior y nos causan mucha preocupación, y depende de la magnitud de la noticia y de seguro recibir malas noticias constantemente te causará trastornos mentales y de salud mental que se reflejarán en tu bienestar físico.

    Y el mundo está lleno de malas noticias. Cuando enciendes tu televisor, es casi seguro que recibirás una mala noticia. Por supuesto, los medios de comunicación se especializan en transmitir malas noticias ignorando las buenas. El hecho de que una gran población del mundo tenga problemas mentales se puede atribuir a las noticias que reciben a diario.

    Sabiduría de los sabios


    No puedes rodearte de personas que sólo dan noticias negativas y esperan tener buena salud.

    Si puedo citar las palabras del sabio rey Salomón: “Las palabras del chismoso son como llagas, y bajan hasta lo más profundo del vientre”. Esto muestra lo importantes que pueden ser las palabras para nosotros. A veces las palabras que escuchamos pueden sentirse como objetos punzantes que han atravesado nuestro cuerpo. Algunas personas usan las palabras como armas contra otras personas, y las palabras son armas efectivas:;

    En otro lugar de sus proverbios, el rey Salomón dijo que “Las palabras de la boca del hombre son como aguas profundas, y la fuente de la sabiduría como arroyo que fluye”. (proverbios 18:4). Esto muestra que las palabras pueden causar refrigerio en las almas.

    Nuevamente se dice “Como aguas frías para el alma sedienta, así son las buenas noticias de un país lejano”.

    Todos estos dichos y muchos otros que no mencionaré aquí enfatizan la importancia de las buenas noticias para el ser humano.

    mundo corrupto


    La naturaleza corrupta del hombre ha hecho que el hombre reciba malas noticias constantemente, haciendo que la presencia de buenas noticias sea muy rara en su vida. Hemos cuidado tanto las cosas materiales y lo que necesitamos tener que rara vez somos felices. Rara vez nos enviamos tarjetas de felicitación o enviamos pequeños obsequios a nuestros amigos solo por diversión. Estamos constantemente persiguiendo la bolsa e ignoramos a las personas que no parecen ayudarnos a perseguirla. Sin embargo, estamos rodeados de noticias sobre depresión económica, alto costo de vida e inflación. Cuanto más ganamos, más gastamos y nuestra búsqueda de la felicidad parece una ilusión. Las buenas noticias son raras y están repletas de malas.

    Las noticias de las redes sociales sobre la escuela, nuestros amigos mostrando su éxito constantemente nos recuerdan lo que no tenemos y despiertan preocupación y descontento dentro de nosotros, luego nos preocupamos más y creamos menos y eso hace que nuestras miserias sean más complicadas.

    Cada día nos despertamos con noticias de ataques terroristas, brotes de enfermedades, explosiones, incendios, accidentes de tren, accidentes aéreos, accidentes automovilísticos fatales, delitos, asesinatos, homicidios, violaciones, trata de niños y la lista es larga. Todo esto nos afecta porque el diseñador de nuestro planeta nunca esperó, o más bien no anticipó, que tendríamos todo esto con nosotros. Nuestros cerebros fueron diseñados para trabajar y vivir en felicidad, es por eso que las personas felices prosperan más que las personas rodeadas de negatividad.

    ¿qué hay de mí?


    Por mi parte, no esperen que salte y grite cuando reciba buenas noticias. No muestro emociones. Puedo desaprobar las buenas noticias, pero mi corazón está feliz. Está mal cuando me juzgas por la cara que tengo. Cuando estoy cansado, las buenas noticias no iluminan mi rostro de inmediato. Pero algunas veces pasará antes de que muestre mi entusiasmo. Recibiré buenas noticias y nunca reaccionaré en absoluto, y si eres una mujer que me está dando la noticia, te preguntarás y te confundirás con mi reacción. Esto se debe a que no soy muy rápido en reacciones emocionales, la mente tiene que aprobar la información que ha recibido, es decir, la procesará, cuestionará la autenticidad de la noticia, cuestionará la fuente, cuestionará al portador de la noticia y a veces tarda en acomodarse a la información. realidad de que algo significativo está sucediendo en mi vida.

    Pero no me juzgues. Me he enfrentado a muchas dificultades y nada realmente me emociona. He observado y probado la vida en muchos escenarios y he notado que nada realmente importa. He visto riquezas y he estado arruinado, he recibido amor y he sido rechazado. Han recibido malas y buenas noticias a partes iguales. Así que todas las experiencias de la vida han dejado mi corazón entumecido, sin reaccionar nunca a los problemas, pero seguro que responderé a todo lo que reciba, tarde o temprano.

    Si resulta que eres mi chica, me cuentas algo y no recibes respuesta alguna, no creas que no te he escuchado ni entendido. El procesamiento de información dentro de mí es totalmente invisible. Sucede en una caja negra, no te dejes engañar por mi cara, sonreír no siempre significa emoción y fruncir el ceño no significa desaprobación. El corazón, el rostro y la mente no siempre funcionan al unísono. Suelen trabajar con cadenas de mando. El cerebro se toma su tiempo para considerar y procesar la información que recibe. Esto puede llevar unos minutos, unas horas o incluso unas semanas, dependiendo de la información que se procese. Si la mente está de acuerdo con lo que recibe, se lo entrega al corazón que almacena la copia de la información. Los algoritmos utilizados en el procesamiento de la información en los hombres son complejos y ocultos. Soy uno de los machos:;

    Si me dicen que he ganado un millón de dólares, no me emocionaré de inmediato, primero intentaré relacionar mi vida con alguien que sea millonario. Me imaginaré con un estilo de vida en el que tengo más dinero del que necesito, crearé imágenes mentales de lo que debo comprar y de los lugares a los que iré. Crear imágenes mentales de las personas que atraerá mi nuevo éxito, examinar los peligros involucrados, examinar los desafíos y luego volver a mi realidad ahora mismo. Me preguntaré: “¿Es una tabla o una realidad?”, las dudas en mí me impedirán celebrar de inmediato. Pero cuando la mente demuestre que es una realidad, guardaré las buenas noticias en el corazón y después de unos días mi rostro comenzará a brillar y el gozo en el corazón será evidente.

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    me atengo a las reglas

    Rara vez rompo las reglas. Entiendo la importancia de las reglas, que existen para protegernos y crear un entorno habitable para todos. La mayoría de las reglas y regulaciones, ya sean escolares, parlamentarias, oficinas o en las carreteras, están destinadas a crear el mayor bien para el mayor número de personas. Lo último que me gustaría tener es un conflicto con las autoridades por romper la regla. Sin embargo, alguna vez me encontré en el lado equivocado de la ley en un hotel que visité y traspasé áreas que eran ilegales. Odié la confrontación con el personal de seguridad pero me disculpé. No fue intencional, sólo que no estaba familiarizado con las reglas.

    Si me encuentro en una nueva ubicación, me esforzaré por aprender a manejarla. Lo primero que buscaré son las reglas y regulaciones escritas. Odio estar en ofensas y en llamar la atención. Odio tener que dar explicaciones ante las autoridades, lo evitaré a toda costa, para no perder tiempo y recursos preciosos tratando de liberarme de la culpa.

    Si me encuentro en un nuevo equipo o lugar, lo primero que hago es informarme sobre el código de ética y las normas sociales escritas y no escritas.

    El único momento en el que puedo romper la regla es cuando mostrar misericordia a alguien será mejor que su destrucción. Las reglas no deberían quitarnos las humanidades. Tuve un caso en el que un miembro del personal infringe las reglas que pueden costarle el trabajo, bueno, la regla dice que debo reportarme, pero después de que los citan y consideran su despido, sus ingresos se perderán, habrá hijos y esposa que sufrir. Mucha gente puede sufrir cuando seguimos las reglas al pie de la letra. A veces, el uso de reglas y regulaciones causa más destrucción que bien. Se ha enviado a personas tras las rejas por un error que no hizo daño a nadie, pero cuando lo piensas, verás que no había necesidad de hacerles sufrir pérdida de tiempo y angustia de espíritu, especialmente cuando estaban arrepentidos. Las reglas y regulaciones pueden ser crueles y causar sufrimientos indecibles a personas inocentes. Las reglas son buenas, pero deben aplicarse con cuidado para no hacer más daño que bien.

    Se suponía que los seres humanos debían guiarse por el razonamiento humano, el amor, la compasión y el cuidado mutuo, de modo que en tales cosas no se necesitaran leyes ni regulaciones, pero debido a que el ser humano se corrompe y, por lo tanto, se vuelve malvado y perverso, se necesitan reglas y regulaciones. Hay que prepararlo para domar su naturaleza corrupta.

    Las reglas son buenas, pero se debe usar más el razonamiento, el instinto y el amor humanos, porque las reglas las hacen los humanos, solo deben guiarlos pero no gobernarlos. El razonamiento humano tiene reglas mayores y se deben aplicar reglas cuando el razonamiento y los instintos son disfuncionales.

    En todas las aplicaciones del derecho, debemos adoptar la filosofía; “la misericordia supera a la justicia”

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