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  • My favorite sport

    My favorite sport

    My favorite sport is football. Not only do i like and enjoy football, i love it. My relationship with football is intimate.

    My history with football started when i was young. I used to pray in school team. Everybody wanted me in their team because i was a top scorer. Am very aggressive and have been always a forward prayer. Am not strong in the body but very swift. i wont give a powerful short but i would literally pass my tiny self through strong and huge bodies of defender and sneak the ball into the net together with myself.

    I stopped praying football when our school went for district inter school competition and i was given the center forward position in the main squad. our first opponent team was the strongest. We rarely touched the ball, the ball seemed to be stuck and lost between their huge legs. I could never reach it. My whole body size was just the size one leg of the opponent players. I felt like a toddler before them. I managed to touch the ball twice in 45 minutes before i was substituted in the second half. I have never felt so intimidated like that day. It was my final year in secondary school, and i felt like that match has drown all reputation i had about being a talented football player in my village. Before that match, i thought that one day, i would play in world cup, but i realized that it was a pipe dream. “if a team in my district can be such intimidating, what about teams from another country?”. I remembered the story of Israelite in the bible which my dad used to narrate. That they went to spy a land, and they said that they were like grasshoppers before the inhabitants of the land, and so they were in their sight. I felt like a grasshopper before giants that day.

    However i never stopped loving football. But I enjoy it the most when my teams are winning. Among my teams that i support is my national team. My favorite team is Brazil.

    Football stirs a lot of emotions in people. People flood in the stadium to watch their favorite team. People cry when their team looses. They go through emotional turmoil when their team losses.

    I would reschedule important assignments just to watch my favorite team play. I would jump onto the table and dance with joy when they score. I would speak about their win the next day to whoever that can give me their ears. I have seen my team win and it literally give me a lot of joy and satisfaction. My team winning is enough for me to have a smile for the next one month and if they win a tournament, i will always feel the sense of entitlement. Am always attached to my national team with mind, body and soul. When they are praying, everything comes to stand still. Thanks God am not a doctor or security officers because am not sure i can be able to respond to emergency calls at that moment:;

    When they loose, It is a great pain to me. It will cause me to lack sleep, loose appetite and loose interest with the whole tournament. If it is world cup and they loose at group stage, that is the end of world cup for me.

    But am not alone. At least i have never attempted to commit suicide or cause bodily harm to somebody else or myself because of football, like the way i have seen with some people. Sometimes, we funs of football we go overboard, we have soo much emotional attachment with it until we can do dangerous things like throwing stones in the field or crashing our television screens when our team looses. We can be violent to our wives when they provoke us as a way of displacing our disappointments. But at least i have never gone to such extents, i usually become calm after loosing, go to my room and feel sorry for myself. MY it really really hurt to loose a game as a team. I have seen football funs crying uncontrollably, mourning as if they are bereaved of their loved ones when their team looses.

    I don’t have specific reason for loving football, just the way i cannot explain why i love my girlfriend. But i love football like no other game in the world

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  • Suppose i win a lottery

    What would you do if you won the lottery?

    Winning a lottery is a big thing. I always wonder if I will absorb the shock of getting the huge amount of money at once. I have heard stories of people that won $100,000 in lottery and they enjoyed their fortune just for a short time before they became broke again.

    I think if I win lottery, I would just pretend I have not won anything for a few days. Then I would go for a vacation and relax. I would enjoy myself for some few days, sleep in a good hotel, eat whatever is pleasant, enjoy swimming and just have a good time. After a few days of rest and enjoyment, I will come back home and invest. Probably in a real estate.

  • Books to read

    What books do you want to read?

    The number of books to read are soo many. Personally I love reading. Am the type that would prefer to read a book than going for a date. The number of books in our university library is quite intimidating to me. If I was to live in the Library and do nothing else but read, I will need several thousands of years to live. But ops! My time here is not much.

    Am interested in almost everything, computer science, geography, mathematics, Physics, Biology, psychology, philosophy and almost everything else that give insight about the human life. Just like my fellow philosophers; Socrates and Aristotle, I love reading . I love reading like Isaac Newton and I like imagining like Albert Einstein. Isaac Newton and I have something in common, I read and I forget to go for dates:;

    But if there happens to be a book that explains precisely and accurately all there is to human beings, I would love to have that have book.

    I seek a book to explain why humans think the way they think. Why is human being soo selfish.?

    Why are human beings never seems to be satisfied with anything in their world ? Why do they seek alot of things and still remain unsatisfied. Why the richest people in the world are not the happiest people in the world?

    Humans always looking for power and control over others, why doesn’t even give them satisfaction when they get it?

    For what reason has human beings caused soo much sufferings to other human beings?.

    Why are women raped by men that were meant to help them?

    Why are men killed and tortured and robbed of life by women that were supposed to love them and be their joy?

    Why do terrorists kill people? For what ultimate benefit when you cause death and suffering and terror?

    Why do rich people exploits the poor ones.

    Why is human being soo wicked yet they have very short life spans.

    Why are we soo worried about tomorrow? Why do we want to amass so much wealth about ourselves.? Why do human makes sophisticated weapons and technology to destroy each other?

    Why do people that were once madly in love with each other, destroys one another with soo much hatred. What makes things we once longed for stop being exciting once we get them?

    So I would like to know about this creature called man, their fears, their ,desires, their aspirations, their motivations, their sorrows and their joy and their woes

    If you happen to have such a book . Then I want,soo badly. please let me know how to get it so that I can dedicate my life in reading it.

    Thank you

  • My dream job

    What’s your dream job?

    My dream job is working as a university professor. This is because my natural inclination is to find solutions to problems, developing new knowledge and thinking abstractly. I would like to be a professor in computer technology because that is what I studied in my University undergraduate.

    I can’t wait to address a large group of students that would be listening carefully what I have to say. I want them want to buy my books and be inspired by lecture. I want their university life be enjoyable and concepts look easy when I explain them. I don’t want to have only theoretical knowledge, but be inspired by works and do something for themselves. I want to do research and write thesis

    I want to attend conference and discuss ideas and supervise projects.

    I want to offer leadership in academics and change life’s, Making students enjoy their courses and find their passion. I want young people be able to find confidence in themselves, have sense of direction and use their natural abilities without needing to compete with anyone for opportunities, because they will have their own unique problems to solve. However, if I can solve problems and get paid and partner with others to do business, innovations and entrepreneurship and still mentor others, I will be fine without being employed by anyone.

    Thank you

  • Good leadership

    What makes a good leader?

    Leadership has been defined mostly as the ability to influence an individual, group of people into certain behavior, action and thoughts in order to follow a certain direction towards achieving a certain goal. When we are considering leadership, we have the tendency to think about it in terms of heading organizations. But leadership can happen without an office or holding of popular positions. Leadership can involve influencing members of your family or even a group of friends or hangouts. Leadership can happen consciously or unconsciously.

    Elements of leadership

    Leadership has happened without even us noticing we are being lead or we are leading. If you have ever happened to influence anyone to take certain direction in life, regardless of your position in life, you are a leader in your own right.

    Leadership may involves the following terms

    • Mentorship
    • Motivating
    • Guiding
    • Educating
    • Encouraging
    • Supporting
    • Directing
    • Influencing
    • Showing how to do something etc

    We have both bad and good leaders but all of us desires good leaders.

    What should we use to describe somebody as a good leader.

    Qualities of a good leader

    Inspirational

    Good leaders usually stirs something inside us to want to do something worthwhile for others and for ourselves. They may do this because of their excellence that makes us want to be like them. Their character, way of doing things, their words and achievements makes us want to be like them.

    Communication

    Good leaders are able to communicate their thoughts and feelings effectively. Their speeches are usually convincing. Their words not only passes through ears but are conceived in our our hearts. Words of a good leader usually arouses the spirit within us to pursue something. For example, Barrack Obama when he was vying to be the president of the united states America moved the crowd because of his skills in speech and his inspiring words “yes we can”.

    Builds confidence

    A good leader makes people believe in themselves and that they can be able to overcome their challenges. Good leaders are like cheer leaders among the people who wants to give up. Good leaders remains optimistic when pessimism is hovering over everybody else. They see opportunities in hopeless situations. They acts as a beacon of hope when people are staring at hopelessness, for example Wilson Churchill.

    Firm

    Good leaders are not the type that is influenced by opinions. They make decisions based on strong facts and information and will not be prejudiced based on people’s opinion. If you have developed feelings based on what others has said without facts to support the feelings, you are far from being a good leader. Good leaders are not influenced in their decision.

    Sees the bigger picture

    Good leaders will see beyond current situations and see possibilities. They will not make decisions based on personal interests but for the benefit of every stake holder that will be affected by their decision. They will not focus on benefiting themselves through their position but will focus on building long lasting systems that will bring long term benefits to people. A good example of such leader was the third president of Kenya, Mwai Kibaki.

    Source of security

    Good leadership makes everybody feel secure around them. They will not be worried about unfair deals against them because they know the leader is a reliable person.

    Think ahead

    Good leaders are able to create visions and provide their followers with a course to follow. They provide dreams to be pursued and ways to pursue them.

    Listening

    Good leaders are not a know it all. You must recognize that your followers have something to contribute. Offcourse you may be surprised surprised that the people at the bottom pyramid in your company knows better what is good for the company compared to the top executives. After all, they could be closer to the consumer s than the top leadership

    Ever learning

    Good leaders are always finding new knowledge and better methods of accomplishing their goals. You learn from juniors, read books, learn from mistakes and from fellow leaders.

    Compassionate

    Good leaders will be kind to their subjects. Their aim is to offer leadership and sense of direction but not to boss around. Joy and happiness of the subjects matters to them. And compassion and kindness always work to the favor of such a leader.

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  • Career dreams

    There is nothing like a good career

    Many people talks about their dream career and defines their childhood dream as what what they wanted to be when they grow up. Most often, when people talk about their childhood dreams, they are talking about the careers they thought they should be doing when they come of age.

    Those childhood dreams in terms of career does not mean that we were created to do the jobs we think we should be doing. It is the society that created our ideas about what is great or not in terms of occupation.

    Most often, when we talk about dream career, we are talking about what will make us look or feel important and so that could be the main reason everybody want have that high profile job. If you ask children about their career prospects, they will often mention those careers their society holds with high regard like doctor, judge, police, pilot etc. This is because people with those careers are highly respected in society.

    Little did we know that, some of the careers we want so badly have people that are depressed, wish to quit and hate it. Many of them , it was their dream job, but now it is their night mare. We usually imagine happiness and status after attaining a position but soon after few months of excitement we lapses back to our state of dissatisfaction. We are no longer happy with our new job, we become bored with routine, we meet toxic workers, nagging boss or we wish we had time to do things we like and most often, we want to quit. We want to climb the ladder, we take extra courses, we go for masters, we train and work hard so that we can compete effectively with our colleagues for the limited positions in the company we work. When we attain a certain target in our career life, we realize that we want to go further, and we spend our lives chasing this or that so as to remain competitive, involving ourselves with what we call the rat race.

    Most often, it is hard to develop strong bonds with people that we spend most of day with, because we dislike them. We don’t like them because we are competing for the scarce resources that we all need. Our colleagues in office are interested with the same position we are seeking. The competition and scarcity of positions we seek causes conflicts and we hates on each other.

    after settling in our job we soon realize that there are things we love, other than our job, we call them hobbies.

    Some people after developing their dream career to great to heights, finds themselves resigning because they realize that what they had been pursuing all through was not what would satisfy their souls. Soon you realize that, what your parents directed you to believe is great does not satisfy you, then you join a large pool of workers with emptiness in heart that is never filled by what they do, they perpetually seem to be seeking something they feel can only be found outside their work.

    Most of people stay in their jobs because they have bills to pay and children to look after. They are unhappy, thought they earn money. Working is what they do to survive, but they don’t work as a way of living.

    so what would make great career?

    Anything you do and makes you happen without materialistic or external motivation, and that can create value to human kind is a great career. If we remove money in life, so that you no longer need to go to job to pay the bills, if you no longer need to go to work so that you can feed your family, then the job or the kind of thing you will be doing without worrying about economy is the career you should be doing. And that should be the dream career.

    According to psychologists, people are motivated to do something by a number of factors. Behavioral psychologist, Abraham Maslow described the human needs as needs that are in hierarchy. when one need is satisfied, your soon sets itself in seeking fulfillment of another need that in the hierarchy. But i guess, what people lack and rarely get in their career is the aesthetic, self-actualization and the Transcendence needs.

    So people could be loving their jobs but still feel dissatisfied with it because of the working environment that prevents them from seeing the beauty of the world( aesthetic), self-actualization and does not cater for transcendence needs. For this reason, people that are highly paid in their jobs keeps resigning and changing company. Off course, they do so because they have the privileged of having skills and competence that are competitive across organizations. There are people that stays for years in an organization feeling dissatisfied and unhappy but the reason they stay is because they don’t have the means, knowledge or abilities to move. Their dream career when they were entering the industry is no longer their dream career when they are nearing the retirement age. What am trying to say is that, people don’t necessarily enjoy the job they thought they will greatly enjoy when they were searching them.

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    Final word

    A great career is not what look prestigious in society or the one that attracts hefty pay. It is what one would do without needing an income. It is what will sustain their happiness and satisfaction for years. It is what will make them remain at peace with themselves and other people for years on end.

    A great career should help you see the beauty of the world apart from earning, It is a career that will make you feel that you have are contributing something worthwhile to the world regardless of its monetary value and status.

    A great career is the one that will make you create and maintain worthwhile relationships with people for all the time, not the one that makes you compete with those that should be your companion for scarce positions and privileges.

    However, great career should help you and your family to lead a comfortable life.

    I don’t need to be a judge or pilot to earn a good living, as long as their is fairness in remuneration and work compensation that can cater for my needs.

    However, because of capitalism, people at the lower level of society are usually exploited, leading to them being dissatisfied with work life. This is because they have less negotiation power and lacks opportunities or means to protect their interests. If there is a fair society that makes people be treated well, because they are human and not because where they come from what they do, then every career is a great career, if does not cause harm to anyone.

    A great career is the one that makes you feel that you are important to mankind regardless of your position in society, It could be as simple as being a tea girl in the office, a sweeper, a janitor, teaching or whatever that attracts very attention, but as long as it is giving you opportunity to see beauty in nature, makes you have good relationship with others and makes you be at peace with spirits, then It is a good career. If your career is not having those things we have discussed, may nature provide you with a dream career:;;

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  • What invention could I remove

    What invention could I remove

    If you could un-invent something, what would it be?

    Initially, when I was younger, I thought that guns were the worst thing that ever happened to human kind. Think of it, Guns has killed many people, probably much more than any other weapon of mass destruction. When I was growing up, small guns, which we used to call pistols were used as the main tool for committing robbery with violence. Organized gangs used guns to intimidate people and they could enter your house and do whatever they wanted, they could take your money, take your household goods, rape your wife and daughters while they have assigned somebody to hold the gun on your head as they accomplished their animosity as you freeze with fear in one corner of your house. It did not end there, they could enter passengers car, and amidst the journey, two or more people could remove guns at random, and then order everybody to lie down and remove everything they have in their pocket, their money, cell phones and any kind of variables, then they could order the driver to direct the vehicle into the forest where they ordered everybody to get out, undress and place all their clothes in a hip, they could then take time to go through all the clothes looking for any variable left there, they could leave over 10 passengers in cold forest as they escaped with your car.

    Travelling became a nightmare, especially long distance travels.The car crimes targeted long distance travelers because they were usually traders going for goods in the city so that they can sell in their local towns. If you happens to travel at night or at lonely forested paths where traffic was not busy, your car could be shot on the tires and it become flat wheeled. Sometimes they could shoot at the dashboard or the drivers hands and then they could beat you and rob you your possessions. It was rare for people with cars to be left unharmed. many were killed and others were permanently left with injuries.

    However, these crime subsided when people stopped carrying money in their pockets, but instead, used electronic forms to do business transactions. Companies that could carry your merchandise from the seller to your premises emerged, they were armed with police and guns so that they could transport variable goods to long distances. Emergence of transport services and electronic money transfer killed the robbery business whose mission was to intercept wealth on transit.

    But when i came to the city, i realized that dangerous gangs did not not need guns to cause serious harms to people. Knives were used to injure and rob people. In slums they could use all kind of crude weapons to beat people, from sharp metal to piece your ribs, blunt piece of wood to strangle you or heavy metal to beat you into unconsciousness and even drugs to numb you or make you have zombie stature. Girls were ordered to undress or they be pierced with knife, or were drugged and raped. Therefore i realized that people did not need guns to cause harm, steal or rape. I also realized that guns were useful to police, otherwise they were helpless in front of dangerous criminal gangs that has learnt the ways of the street. criminal gangs with their crude weapons and wicked heart could do much more harm that the guns and it took gun shots to tame them. Therefore i concluded that, we needed guns to be secure as much as guns were source of insecurity.

    One day i witnessed police used their AK 47 guns to deal with a cobra that had become a night mare to an estate, it had entered somebody’s house and no one could dare fight it because it’s poisonous saliva was more lethal than most of crude weapons people had. Also in village, police were called to deal with angry Buffalo that was sweeping people without regarding their crude weapons direct to it, were it not for police guns to tame this animals, they could have done unimaginable destruction before a solution was found. Therefore, i stopped hating guns. I think it’s inventor should be given a Nobel prize.

    You see, in most of technologies, it is not the invention that is bad or harmful, it is people that are evil. According the book of genesis chapter 6 of the holy bible, people’s imaginations are always evil and dirty continuously. The inclination of human being is to do evil, and so they will find a way of using whatever is in their hands to do evil. One think i could change given abilities is the spirit of a man. Because it is the one that gives births to all evil, no grenade propel itself, not nuclear elements organized themselves to make powerful bom. It is the people that spends sleepless night trying to find ways of destroying others, mostly to benefit from other people’s possession. For example Ukrainians were leaving in peace until Russian’s president felt that their land could be us well be under his territory. Ironically, we don’t need all those things we kill for, and after few days of possessing what was making us excited, we are no longer as happy as we thought we will be after getting what we so enthusiastically fought for.

    a robot

    Artificial Intelligence (AI)

    I think the greatest scam of the world is the artificial intelligence. We strive to develop machine that can learn human behavior and use million of dollars to develop their chips yet we cannot facilitate education of millions of intelligent children that cannot get education because of poverty. Well, we argue that machines are more consistent and don’t get tired, don’t get upset or don’t need rest. So with artificial intelligence, we can produce more with less costs.

    But we produce for people. We want to produce more goods and services because their are people who will consume them. Machines will not need what we are producing. When we have driven people out of jobs because of innovating new efficient ways of doing things, it means we have killed their purchasing power. So will the robots that delivers our products in our doorsteps enjoy services in our hotels?, buy our high performance phone to take selfies and flock in our hotels for holidays?. Will intelligent machines need our cars and our fashionable clothing. Will they buy tickets to enjoy football in our stadiums. Eventually we may drive everybody out of work and we be left to work with only machine and transact business with them. People will be left to die beacuse of wants, and what will the manufactures do with the billions of products they will be making monthly?

    Fast moving trains

    Yes, we have trains that can move at a speed of 120m/s. My simple question is, why do we need to go that fast?

    Don’t forget to tell me why we need speed in the comments section:;;

  • When I felt special

    Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?

    One day, a house girl next door wrote to me a short note. ” hey handsome, when I see you, my whole body shiver, when you see me staring at you, just know that my eyes and heart are filled with desires to have you, that I can make you mine forever “….I have never forgotten those words. I will never forget them.

    Immediately after college, I college mate and a close friend of mine after few months of separation, called me during my birthday out of nowhere and suddenly sang happy birthday to me for me with the whole class she was teaching.

    During COVID-19, I visited my girlfriend and she took 3 hours baking cake, 🎂🎈🎉, just for me.

    And I sang her the song ” you r like a lovely land to me, you have doves eyes my love”….and the whole week, she kept asking me to sing the song for her .

    Another time I felt special is when my girlfriend kept calling me at night just to tell me she wanted to hear me talk, and we talked from early evening to morning. I never slept. I was sleepy at work and when my colleagues showed concern, I just smiled it off.

    when I visited my sister last year, she cooked chapatis for me to eat and to carry some for myself because I was living alone.

    Another moments when I have felt special is when I was sick and mum carried me at her back to take me to hospital. I was 14 by them.

    When I visit home, the kind of effort mum shows to make a special meal for me. Just for me

  • Clutter in life

    How can you reduce clutter in your life?

    Cluttering in life occurs when your life is disorganized.

    Clutter is when you have things in your life that strains your capacity to manage. Clutter can be emotional, mental or even physical. However, physical clutter could be a sign you have mental and emotional clutter.

    Clutter is a phenomena where we have confusion and lack of direction because we have allowed so many distractions in our life.

    mental clutter is when you think about so many things at the same time without clarity.

    Physical clutter is seen in things we keep and how keep them.

    Emotional clutter can occur can occur when you have emotional attachment with many people.

    A person with a cluttered life is a person who is holding more than they can manage.

    Surprisingly, people whose life are cluttered are usually quite intelligent and very ambitious. Their essence of being ambitious makes them accumulate things in life. They could also be people that are nice and easy going that could be accepting too much from people. For instance, people that accepts too many requests for help or otherwise.

    Do you usually finds it difficult to resist an offer for a new course, or an invitation to attend a function? Then you are a candidate for clutter.

    If you have a cluttered life, you may have desks that are piled with things. Papers are full on your desk, your computer is full of files on the desktop such that you will take time and effort to trace any particular file and the number of icons cannot even all fit on the screen.

    Your sitting rooms could be having things randomly scattered all over.

    You take a lot of time to trace a misplaced item like a TV remote in a house you live alone. Your bedroom has pile of dirty and clean clothes that co-exists together.

    Another sign your life is cluttered is that you wash clothes and when they are dry, you don’t put them in the right place, you can postpone arranging them and you find yourself looking from a pile of clean clothes what to wear. Before you know it, all your clean clothes are dirty again before you arranged any of them.

    People with cluttered life usually have soo much to do at their hands but ends up doing very little. They feel overwhelmed by the number of things they are likely to accomplish and this may cause anxiety and compromise their ability to concentrate on a productive cause.

    Effects of cluttered life

    Loss of productivity

    Cluttered life causes loss of productivity, time and strain relationships. When you have too much to do, you lack time to nurture meaningful relationships. Because of clutter, you may lack time to go out and create meaningful relationships because you end up being busy all the time and cannot manage time.

    A coping mechanism for a person with cluttered life is procrastination.

    people with cluttered life are usually distracted by new things. Usually they are overwhelmed by the number of things they need to do and so they pick new activities as a way to manage stress from overwhelming things around them. There is usually feeling of helplessness in the person because their clutter makes them weary.

    wasting time

    People with cluttered life usually wastes a lot of time because they take long time before they start doing what they need to do. For example if you have a cluttered desk, you easily misplaces files and tools of work. You ends up spending a lot of time looking for things. A person could spend substantial amount of time trying to find a file they were working on or a tool they have misplaced. They end up wasting time and they find that by the end of the day they have accomplished very little.

    Stress

    Time wasted when looking for things in clutter causes mental stress because you desired to accomplish much but now you feel frustrated because you had done very little by end of the day. The result is that you try to find coping mechanism by looking for more appealing activities like scrolling a phone or watching a video on the laptop, postponing activities that are giving you mental stress. you find yourselves lagging behind in projects and not completing your assignments on time. This can strain relationships with your boss causing you more stress. People with cluttered life are always stressed people making it difficult to harness their potential to achieve anything substantial. So clutter can cause you to fail in life.

    hyper activity

    People with cluttered life cannot have rest because they feel guilt when not doing something, and because they cannot rest, the don’t produce quality solutions to problems, hence they achieves very little. Clutter can cause you relationships because you are likely to lack emotional control as you are always stressed. Emotional outbursts can strain relationships at work and hinder career progression.

    How to remove clutter

    Manage yourself

    No matter how busy your schedule become, be calm, don’t bow down to the feeling of urgency to keep doing something even when your body demand rest. Take a break, go and have nice time with friend, go and have a nice meal in a restaurant, you are not the one keeping the earth in it’s motion, relax.

    Avoid procrastination

    Do first things fast. Don’t postpone making your bed until later time. Fold your clothes immediately without waiting for a convenient time. Don’t postpone anything.

    Be selective

    Not very good deal that needs your attention. Just have feel few things to do. Avoid being distracted from important things in your life by some appealing activities. You don’t have to enroll for an online course that seems a super deal for your career. Go us of few things that can add value and not wide range of interests

    Be neat

    Take time to look for nice clothes for yourself, you works too hard, you deserve nice things. Groom yourself.

    Ensure your desk or your house is not cluttered. Where necessarily, hire somebody who can arrange things professionally in your office if you find it difficult doing it yourself, after few times if paying their wages, you will learn the importance of being orderly and what positive energy it can bring to your brain.

    Be professional

    Arrange things in folders in your computer. Don’t fill your laptop desktop with files which will cause you spend useful time looking for things in your computer. Have a pattern of saving files. It can be frustrating when you have to spend half an hour trying to look for a file you created few days ago. Ask somebody from IT to help if it is difficult to manage your files in the computer.

    Say no

    Don’t be the nice guy in office that always pick tasks yet you have too much to do. Learn to tell people you cannot take any more. After all, when you burn out and become unproductive, they will accuse you for it.

    Have a plan

    Determine what activities you need to accomplish at a specific time and schedule for it. Break down a huge task into small chunks that can be finished within a given unit of time like an hour, 2 hours, half a day or even a day. Stick to your schedule and don’t pick some extra tasks in between.

    Check your desires

    There is a wise saying by king Solomon that says “A bird at hand is better that wondering of desires”. Don’t desire people that wont like you. Some people have emotional baggage because they don’t love people that loves but and they are always disturbed and angry because they love people that wont love them back. It is amazing how we often does that. Don’t ignore people that likes you as you pursue those that don’t like you. This way, you have better emotional support. don’t go for things you like in people, beauty and material things excites just for a short time, go for people that truly loves you, because only then you will have long lasting joy and stability.

    Practice this for a month and let me know if it has not brought positive change to your life by sending me a comment.

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